The Houston Chronicle recently compiled a list of Southern Baptist church leaders who have been convicted or credibly accused of sexual misconduct. This is something that victims of sexual abuse within the Southern Baptist church have been calling for for years. According to the Houston Chronicle, Debbie Vasquez, who was molested by her pastor as a teenager traveled to the Southern Baptist Convention in 2008 with others who had also been abused. They implored the Southern Baptist Convention to put preventative policies in place, but the Southern Baptist leaders rejected almost every proposed reform. Since then, 250 people who worked or volunteered in Southern Baptist Churches have been charged with sex crimes. They left behind more than 700 victims.
Of course, we are not surprised. Rev. Thomas Doyle, a priest and former high-ranking lawyer for the Catholic Church was one of the first people to blow the whistle on instances of sexual abuse within the Catholic Church. According to him, they “lied about it … covered it up and ignored the victims”. He added that he “saw the same type of behavior going on with the Southern Baptists.
What is kind of annoying about this is that, when it comes to Christians who are self-righteous, homophobic bigots; many Southern Baptists are known to be some of the worst. Remember Westboro Baptist Church? And the pastor who celebrated a mass-shooting in a gay club, while being guilty of actual sexual misconduct himself.
And unfortunately, it’s not just the Christian church that has been plagued by lies, corruption, sexual misconduct, abuse and greed. Although westerners tend to think that eastern spiritual traditions have it all figured out, the more I’ve learned about it, the more I’ve learned that there are just as many greedy, philandering gurus as there are Christian preachers. Just recently there was the documentary about the guru known as Osho, which exposed his less-than-proper conduct. And I’m also reminded of Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche, who was a revered Tibetan Lama, but also an abusive drunk. Sadly, we flock to priests, preachers and gurus in search of answers on how to transcend the ego; only to find that – on their worst days – they are just as caught up in the ego as anyone else. Even on their best days, they have not yet overcome their “humanness”.
And I suppose that I can’t really judge as I have not yet attained my black belt in “holiness” either. I have done some stupid things in my life for really stupid reasons that make no sense to me. I often give in to my urges and addictions. Sometimes I feel the need to prove myself to people who don’t care about me. Other times I treat the people that do care about me like shit. In moments of anger I say hurtful things even though everything in me knows that I shouldn’t say it. And if I think about it, this is probably the main reason why I’ve been on this so-called spiritual path. Because sometimes I really just don’t like myself and I want to become “better”.
But that then raises the question: Do people actually get “better”? We’ve seen time and again how even some of the most revered spiritual leaders lie, steal, abuse and corrupt. When you spend enough time around religious or spiritual people, you’ll find that, more often than not, they’re the biggest sinners and hypocrites out. This might seem like a paradox at first, but it actually makes perfect sense. Because like I said, probably the main reason why anyone would become interested in spirituality in the first place is because, on some level, they know that they’re a mess and they want to become better. The monk who sold his Ferrari did so because his frantic lifestyle would’ve killed him otherwise. I’m also reminded of Jesus’ words, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick.” We seek out a spiritual path because we want to be “better”. Maybe later on we realize that there’s more to it, but mostly that is the main reason.
But if Christian preachers and Tibetan Lama’s can’t even get their shit together, then what hope is there for the rest of us? I find myself asking, if one carries on down a spiritual path for long enough and with enough dedication; is there ever a point where you become born again or reach Nirvana or whatever you want to call it and finally see through the ego’s illusion? And if so, are there people, like Jesus or the Buddha for instance, who actually got to such a place?
Could there really be a person that one might consider to be a “perfect” human being?
Christians seem to think that Jesus was indeed such a person. More than that, they believe that he was God incarnate. Hindu’s tend to believe that we are all God incarnate and Buddhists generally don’t believe in God, as such. But they do tend to believe that the historical Buddha was a fully enlightened being.